The Concept of "Acceptance"

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  • Sometimes you never hear people talk about "recovered" from grief. I'm not too happy with this term because it suggests that sadness is a disease that must be healed. Sadness is not an illness but a natural process and is urgently needed.
  • Besides, you do not "recover" from or "forgetting" sadness. However, you "accept" it. In other words, you learn to accept it and will be forever affected by it.
  • However, this fact does not mean a life of misery. Sometimes we not only heal but also grow through grief. Our life has the potential to become deeper and more meaningful after the death of a loved one.
  • Acceptance takes time. You probably can not really accept the feeling your loss for several years and one day you will get a "puff-puff sorrow" for good.

Express Yourself:
Talk with people who have experienced the death of their loved ones. Ask how he can pass and whether she had been "cured" of the death. The story he might help you to understand that although grief is forever, but will be gradually reduced and life can be fun again.

Understand The Difference Between Grief and Mourning

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  • Sad is that you fikirkan and you feel if someone you love dies. Feelings of numbness, sadness, anger, regret, and sometimes felt relieved, all mixed into one. This is such a pain in your stomach and as there was a hole in your chest.
  • Sorrow is an expression of sadness, out in any way. You grieve when you cry, talk about death, write about it, or punching a pillow.
  • Every one mourn when their loved ones died. but only those who are grieving that will recover and resume their lives and to love fully again.
  • Mourning was amazing. Believe me. Bereaved is very strong and only the only one who can help.

Express Yourself:
What feelings you have right now about the death? Express these feelings right now by writing or share it with someone. How do you feel now after doing a little sad?



Soichiro Honda: Look at My Failures

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Experience is the teacher of the most brutal and cruel.

Try to observe a vehicle that crossed the highway. Surely, your eyes are always hampered by Honda, either car or motorcycle. Brand vehicular traffic is crammed into dense, so that feasible nicknamed "king of the streets".

However, did you ever know, the founder of the "kingdom" Honda - Soichiro Honda - covered failure. He also holds an engineering degree, especially Professor. He was not a brilliant student who has a brain. In class, his seat was never in front, always away from the view of teachers. "Bad my grades in school. But I'm not sad, because my world around machinery, motorcycles and bicycles, "said this leader, who died at the age of 84 years, after being treated at Juntendo Hospital, Tokyo, due to mengindap lever. We pioneered the business Soichiro Honda was always filled with failure. He had fallen ill, ran out of money, expelled from college. But he then had a dream and dream ...

Love of machines, probably 'inherited' from his father who opened the farm repair shop, in the hamlet of Kamyo, Shizuko district, Central Japan, the birthplace of Soichiro Honda. In the garage, his father gave cathut (older brother) to remove the nail. He also often played in place of rice mills saw a diesel engine propulsion motors. There, a man born 17 November 1906, it can remain silent for hours. At the age of 8 years old, she pedaled as far as 10 miles, just want to watch airplanes.

Apparently, his interest in the machine, not in vain. When he was 12 years, Honda managed to create a model bicycle pancal with foot brake. But, his mind does not dream of becoming the automotive business travelers. He realized from poor families. Moreover, physically weak, not handsome, to make them inferior.

At the age of 15 years, the Honda fled to Japan, working Hart Shokai Company. His boss, Saka Kibara, very pleased to see how it works. Honda's thorough and efficient in a matter of machinery. Every sound suspicious, any leaking oil, not escaped his notice. Six years of working there, "adds his insights about the machinery. Finally, at the age of 21 years, her boss suggested opening a branch office in Hamamatsu. This offer is not ditampiknya.

In Hamamatsu keep improving their performance. He always received a repair shop that was rejected by another. It acts quickly to fix the car too so that customers running again. Therefore, the hours late at night, and sometimes until dawn. The brain remains a creative genius. At that time, the radius of a car made of wood, up to no good damping shocks. He got the idea to replace it with a trellis-metal trellis. The result is extraordinary. Metal trellis trellis-seller, and exported worldwide. At age 30, Honda signed a patent to the first.

After creating a trellis, Honda wants to break away from his boss, makes his own garage business. He started thinking, what is selected specialist? Her mind is set on the creation Pinston Ring, which is produced by his own machine shop in 1938. Unfortunately, his work was rejected by Toyota, it is considered not meet the standards. Homemade ring is not flexible, and will not sell. He remembered his friends reaction to the failure. They deplored himself out of the garage.

Lectures for this failure, Honda fell ill seriously enough. Two months later, his health restored. He again led the workshop. But Ring Pinston about it, yet also has a solution. By looking for answers, she went to college again to add his knowledge of machinery. At noon, after school - the morning, he was immediately into the garage, practicing the newly acquired knowledge. After two years as a student, he was eventually expelled for rarely attending the class.

"I feel like dying, because when the hungry are not fed, but crammed with long-winded explanation about the food laws and their effects," said Honda, a crazy race car. To the president, he explained he meant not seeking college diploma. But knowledge. This explanation is actually considered an insult.

Thanks to hard work, his Pinston Ring design is accepted. Toyota Party to give the contract, so that Honda wants to build a factory. Uh, unfortunately, the intention has failed. Japan, for ready to war, did not provide funding. He was desperate not to collect capital from a group of individuals to establish a factory. Again disaster coming. After the war broke out, the factory burned twice.

However, Honda is not discouraged. He was rushed to collect their employees. They were ordered to take the remaining cans of benzene was thrown by the United States ship, used as materials to build the plant. Unexpectedly, a erupts earthquake destroyed the factory, so it was decided to sell the plant to the Toyota Pinstonnya Ring. After that, Honda tried several other businesses. Unfortunately all of them failed.

Finally, in 1947, after Japan's wartime shortages of gasoline. Here the Japanese economy in ruins. So much so that Honda can not sell his car to buy food for his family. In circumstances of urgency, he installed a small motor on a bicycle. Who would have thought, "motorcycle" - the forerunner to the birth of Honda cars - were enthused by the neighbors. They flocked to order, so that Honda ran out of stock.

Here, the Honda motorcycle factory re-established. Since then, success is never out of hand. The following Honda Motor mobinya, became "king" of the streets of the world, including Indonesia. Soichiro Honda said, do not see success in the automotive industry wrestle. But look at the failures they experienced. "People see my success is only one percent. But, they do not see my 99% failure ", he said. He gives advice when you experience failure, which began to dream a new dream mimpikanlah and try to turn that dream into reality.

Honda this story, is an example that the critical success could be achieved by someone with a minimum investment, not smart at school, or come from poor families. So why should we despair contemplating the fate of distress and failure. Stay strong and keep trying, look at Honda's "King" street.

5 Recipes success of Honda:
  1. Always ambitious and youthful.
  2. Respect sound theory, discover new ideas, dedicated time to improve production.
  3. Senangilah your job and try to make your working conditions as comfortable as possible.
  4. Look for a smooth working rhythm and harmony.
  5. Always remember the importance of research and collaboration.

Source: kisahinspiratif.com

Tips: Making The Lucky Life

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Professor Richard Wiseman of the University of Hertfordshire in England, tried to examine the things that distinguishes orang2 luck with that shit. Wiseman recruited a group of people who felt his life was always lucky, and another group whose life is always unfortunate, problematic. It was indeed a lucky person to act differently with their bad luck.

Based on the results of the claimed "scientific" is, Wiseman found four factors that distinguish those who are lucky from the unlucky. These four factors are:

1) Attitudes toward chance
People are lucky indeed more open to opportunities. They are more sensitive to the opportunity, creating good opportunities, and act when opportunity comes. How is this possible? It turns out people who are fortunate to have a more relaxed attitude and open to new experiences. They are more open to interaction with new people who are known, and create new social networks. Conversely, groups of people unlucky to have feelings and attitudes that are more tense, so closed to new possibilities. Using intuition to make decisions.

2) People who were more fortunate than the logic of relying on intuition.
Important decisions made by most of the lucky people turned out on the basis of a whisper "conscience" (intuition) rather than the brain of sophisticated things with numbers. The figures will be helpful, but the final decision of the general "good feeling". Which may be difficult for people who are unlucky, the whisper of conscience we'd be hard to hear in our brain dizzy with endless reasoning. So lucky people generally have a method to sharpen their intuition, for example through regular meditation. On a calm mental state, and a clear mind, intuition will be more accessible. And the more often used, our intuition will become more sharply.

3) Always expect good will come ..
The lucky ones who was always positive attitude towards life. Prejudiced by optimistic that good will come to him. With such a mental attitude, they are more resistant to a test that may befall them, and will be more positive in interacting with others.

4) Change a bad thing to be good
People are very good luck bad situation and turn it into goodness. For them every situation there is always a bright side. In one of his tests Prof. Wiseman asked participants to imagine is going to the bank and suddenly raided the bank armed robbers. And participants were asked to express their reactions. The reaction of groups of people unlucky general, is: "oh shit there Bener tengah2 such robbery." While the reaction of the lucky ones, for example, is: "I am lucky to be there, I could write my experience to the media and get money." Whatever the situation is just lucky lucky man continued. They were quickly able to adapt to a bad situation and turn it into a fortune.

According to Professor Richard Wiseman => secret of the lucky ones who are quite simple. He said, almost all normal people can also be lucky. Including you. Have you started to become the lucky Ready?
First, Open your Mind, and Enjoy Your Life ... ...